Divorce in late life: condition and coping strategy adopted

Abstract

Divorce in late life, involving individuals aged 50 and above, is one of the emerging social phenomena that challenges the traditional notion of lifelong marriage in culturally conservative societies like Nepal. Despite its increasing prevalence, very few research has been able to examine its causes, consequences, and coping mechanisms. This qualitative study being based on in-depth interviews with ten late life divorcees living inside Kathmandu Valley, explores the conditions that lead to marital dissolution and the strategies adopted afterward. Findings of this research paper indicate that emotional neglect, financial disputes, domestic violence, shifting social standards, and long-term marital dissatisfaction are major contributors to divorce in later life. Respondents of this research study highlighted post-divorce difficulties such as damaged family ties, social stigma, emotional isolation, financial instability, and health deterioration. Similarly coping mechanisms consist of rebuilding identity, seeking financial independence, engaging in social and religious networks for obtaining moral and social support, and participating in therapeutic activities. The research paper further reflects how prevailing gender norms and societal change shape experiences of our respondents. Drawing insights of Modernization Theory, Structural Theory, and Gender Perspective Theory, the research concludes that late-life divorce is a complex issue requiring culturally sensitive interventions, strengthened social support, and policy reforms. The obtained findings of this research paper carry important implications for social workers, policymakers, and geriatric care providers.